Have DSS here for 2 wks, he asked to come and stay so I paid for him to fly down, he is nearly 16. His dad (my OH) is away in the forces for 3 months atm so isn't here. My DS1 is 14, DD 12 and DS2 9.
DSS has been ribbing and teasing DS1 constantly since he arrived, to the point of taking it too far and upsetting him for which I have (very nicely) spoken to him about (last summer I also spent a long time listening to and supporting him over him being bullied at school!!).
I took them all to a theme park and he spent the entire day calling DS1 a "pussy" because DS1 doesn't like scary fast rides. I dealt with the situation diplomatically and hope all 4 had a good day.
Just walked to the shop with DD and she has told me that - yesterday while I was at work DSS barricaded himself in DS1's room (they are sharing) telling him to "fuck off" everytime he tried to get in there and telling him he hated us all (encouraging DS2 to side with him) and has got the phone number of a friend of DS1's (a girl he really likes) and has been phoning her up constantly being an idiot and also embarrassing DS1.
DSS flies home tomorrow. I don't know whether to tackle these issues now and risk DSS being more of a sod to DS1 tomorrow while I am work or talk to my OH about it when he gets home in a couple of weeks.
Am thinking about pretending that girls mum has phoned complaining about phone calls and has threatened to call the police.
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slightlyunbalanced · 25/08/2011 17:16
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