aaarrrggghhh!
DSD (who is 10yrs old) lives with me, DH and our DD. DH and I have had custody and residence orders since she was 3yrs due to major failings of mother.
DSD has recently spent half of the holidays with her mother at both of their requests.
She came back on Friday and all hell broke loose :(
DSD is insisting that she wants to live with her mum. Mum is agreeing and saying that she wants her to move to live with her, which is 2 hours away by car so no way we could trial her spending increased amounts of time with her mum.
However over the course of yesterday it has emerged that there has been a considerable amount of what you could call 'poisoning' that has happened whilst she has been in the care of her mother.
The reason I want to give DSD's mother a piece of my mind is that she has been saying that I'm not her REAL step-mother. Apparently because I haven't adopted her (we have asked if I could do this before and mother has refused).
She has also apparently told my DSD that there is no way I could equally care for and love my DSD and my DD (who is 5yrs). DSD's mother has basically been saying that she is second best in this house and my DD will always come first...cheeky bitch.
To top it all off my DSD said to me 'I'm not saying you're a bad mum, I would just rather live with my actual mum.' That stung like hell.... and since all this has kicked off I feel absolutely shite.
I may be spending an afternoon with DSD's mother as DSD has an archery competition this afternoon. I seriously think I'm going to completely loose it and give her a right mouthful.
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hiltontribe · 21/08/2011 09:40
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