AIBU to say stop drinking or fuck off? I haven't got time for understanding his problem or why he does it, he's not a classic alcoholic he's just greedy and doesn't know when to stop. Even at home when we share a bottle, I get about half a glass, and I catch him opening another. We had a friend to dinner on Tuesday and they opened three bottles of wine, I had one beer.
I am no angel, I can be a PITA. My DH and I go through peaks and troughs, we've been together for 13 yrs and have 4 dcs.
Since having DCS he's given up booze a few times, loses weight and everything is dandy (well not shit).
Over the last four years he's pissed in the dcs bedrooms twice, stayed out about three times, and lied a lot. The relationship slowly deteriorates when he drinks more and he becomes more miserable and less reasonable.
Last night he heard that a few work colleagues, all single no kids, were at a friends house and he decided to try and create an argument with me so he could storm out and go. It was really obvious and so I didn't rise. He then had an argument with me, despite me not really saying anything and him just willfully misinterpreting everything,and left our house at 11.30pm and didn't return.
He's come home with a bruise on his face where he was sick and didn't know that he wasn't at home when I called to wake him.
I am so fucked off.
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Marriedtoachild · 20/08/2011 09:47
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