have namechanged for this. Brief history; quite a few years ago I had a physically/emotionally abusive ex who I managed to leave after summoning up the courage to break off our engagement. This was after a few years of every time I tried to leave him, him threatening an overdose or other extreme emotional blackmail. It was a dark time in my life and I try not to think about it. I am now a very happily married mum and thank heavens every day for the incredible man I am married to. I feel it's important to say this because I know that I have nothing but pity for and maybe even residual fear of my ex, and as this AIBU involves his now girlfriend I need to make clear that I have no feelings whatsoever for him.
I run a small business, PR of sorts, and the ex's gf is in exactly the same field and just starting her own company. I have noticed that she is directly targeting my existing clients on social media and mentioning me as a mutual association. I have never met the woman and as I now live in a totally different city am unlikely to. Am I being unreasonable to find this unsettling and creepy?
I know that social media is not real life exactly, but it is an integral part of my professional life and I feel as if she is deliberately targeting me in some weird way. AIBU? If I'm not, what should I do?
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Thetrickistokeepbreathing · 20/08/2011 01:33
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