it's all in the title really but I don't feel comfortable with it because I feel our 2 and a half year old has coped with enough changes for now. His sister would be 3 weeks old and his father (who plays with him a lot, takes him out and does bedtime sometimes) wants to take him to his family abroad for the weekend. The toddler doesn't know them at all well and is not familiar with the place.
DH says DS will have a great time. I feel he would but the timing is wrong. I think enough disruption And changes already in DS' life.
He has been amazing about the birth of his sister but obviously is a little more emotionally fragile than usual.
I am his main carer and having a baby has taken me' away from Hungary more than I would have liked. We are v close.
Am I being precious and unreasonable?
I would miss them both but am staying with my family so would be fine for support myself.
What do you think? (oh and the baby can't come too as originally planned because we don't yet have her passport).
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AIBU to not want Dh to take toddler abroad to his family for the weekend when we have just had a new baby??
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dycey · 18/08/2011 23:01
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