He's been away over a month, although I have seen him in that time. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks, and the kids even longer.
I'm bored stiff at home and so are the kids. I live overseas, it's blisteringly hot, it's Ramadan so everything is closed (apart from supermarkets and some shops) and all bar one of my friends is overseas.
I've had a recent bereavement, can't sleep, have had a headache for weeks which the doctor I saw today diagnosed as stress-related and the kids are driving me crazy.
DH is many hours behind us and unreachable except in an emergency during his day so we don't get to speak a lot, we communicate mostly through emails.
I do have to admit to being a teensy bit pissed off that he's out every night until midnight at the earliest with the guys he's there with while I'm like a zombie because I CAN'T sleep, not because I'm out socialising. I know it doesn't really affect me but when he gets back he'll expect to crash for days because he's tired.
Upshot is he's supposed to be home on WEds. but told me a couple of days he might extend until sun to help some other guys out. Now it might be Fri but he's not sure.
I so want him home but would like him to figure this out for himself but as his work is soooo important to him I'm not sure he will.
AIBU to push him to come home (unless he's already delayed his flights back)?
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GiserableMitt · 15/08/2011 12:04
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