All booked for cousins wedding in London, meant to be flying in with DH and 2 DC including baby, brother and his fiance, and mother. Though everything is booked and paid for and the rest of my family are going, DH thinks IABU to take our baby to London, in current situation, and also as we are cash strapped at the end of my maternity leave. DH is travelling separately with baby, he has different flights, as he originally didn't want to come at all, and said he would look after baby at home. So he needs to hire a care to carry the pram etc. He wants me to cancel, and stay at home with family. Please advise!