I mean we ask once a year. The area is a passageway between 2 gardens giving her rear access to her garden next-door-but-one. Last time she said she couldn't afford it and we said fair enough but it is damaging our fence and enroaching into our garden (we're talking 12ft high brambles etc) so hopefully soon. This time I just went round with freshly baked muffins and offered to pay £100 toward the cost (about 1/2) or help physically.
She immediately waved me away, claimed we were pressurising her, claimed the muffins were a bribe (a BRIBE!), claimed she'd given us permission to sort it ourselves, claimed we keep on asking her and said it sounded like we were demanding it to be sorted. I stressed we just wanted to work with her on it, we couldn't afford the money or time ourselves and I'm limited physically (2 kids
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To be irritated my neighbour sees asking her to sort our garden boundary once a year as HARRASSMENT!
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