what? are you the parent or are your children parenting themselves while you drink yourself silly........................actually that sounds like plan. <hands reins over to kids and grabs wine> woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
When DD1 was a similar age her fellow mindee bit her (yet again). Now DD has the sweetest nature but this was the final straw. DD chased mindee round CM's house until she caught him. She then put him in a headlock and pounded his head! DD was punished by CM (but not much) and fellow mindee never bit her again!
Sometimes a bit of direct justice is just the thing.
BTW DD is now 15 and still is sweet natured so the power didnt go to her head!