First AIBU so please be gentle!
At the weekend, my dad, sister and brother came to stay with us. It was all the usual bickering etc (I will not be inviting them altogether again but that is for another thread!) but my dad IMO acted like a total cock on Saturday.
We'd gone to Tesco to do some shopping, can't remember the conversation, but he told my sister to 'stop acting like a slapper'. She was understandably really upset, and dad just could not see it. She was basically saying to him that he had really insulted her, how could he think it was appropriate to say something like - particularly in response to her comment which was completely innocuous.
So dad then gets annoyed (previously, I think he thought he was being 'funny' - he's always been one for totally inappropriate jokes) and starts saying 'I said like a slapper, that's not calling you a slapper', 'I've supported you all through your life and this is the thanks I get', 'so it's alright for you to call me an idiot it it?' (FTR she didn't and I don't think she would).
Sis ended up crying in the middle of Tesco while dad stomped off in a huff. Refusing to apologise as he clearly couldn't see he had done anything wrong.
I feel like a should just let it go, but TBH I am really upset and I can't stop thinking about it. This is not the first time he has reduced me or my sister to tears with a 'jokey' comment. He said the same thing to me when I was about 18 and ended up with me in floods of tears in my room. I just feel like my dad is a dick, and I shouldn't feel this way! At the same time, I really don't know what, if anything, I should do. He doesn't respond well to criticism and is always right so anything said falls on deaf ears.
Sorry it's so long but can anyone advise?
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whackamole · 26/07/2011 13:23
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