We have been having work done to our house since last November (a total gutting really), anyone we had a friend of a friend do some electric work, on the second day 4 bedroom walls fell down as its an old house, he offered to help us save money be helping out and fixing them, this led to something else going wrong which he also helped fix, he did a lot for us which we will never forget and at the end of the first fix (around march) we asked him to let us know what we owed him so we could pay him up to that date at least (he knew we were struggling, but he was himself with 3 kids to feed). He refused and said he wouldn't take a penny until we moved in, my partner literally had to go and put money through his door so we felt we had given him something towards the overall cost at least.
Fast forward a few months to may we hadn't heard off him for a while but we knew he had split up with his wife and tried to get in contact to offer support, nothing to do with the house that could wait as far as we were concerned, we left messages asking him to let us know if he was alright as he had become a close good friend, Cue the friend who introduced us who now starts blaming us for the break up of the marriage as "we" kept him there in the house constantly... we haven't heard from the electrician now since the first bank holiday in may.. we left it so long as he was going through a rough time, we still had other work to be getting on with so didn't see the need for rushing him, Now though he wont answer any texts, we don't know where he is as we only knew his marital home and i don't think it would be good to turn up asking his ex if she knows where hes gone.But we do know he is still working for other people so its not like hes off all depressed somewhere. We have even had other quotes from electricians to finish the work but the one who would do it (most wont touch another electricians work as they don't know what they've done exactly, so wont take blame for anything going wrong) quoted us something ridiculous. Apart from the work not being finished, my partner is gutted that he has lost a friend who was really good to us. I just think hes obviously blaming us for something but is being a bit childish about it and ignoring us completely wont resolve anything. We still owe him money you'd think he would get in contact if only for that but nothing, just haven't a clue what to do now...
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Vix1980 · 21/07/2011 12:26
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