Hi!
Not sure if i am beimg unreaaonable as my sil often irritates me for no real definable reason. I think we are just wired differently. Sil & most of dh's family live about 5 hours drive from us. We see them about 3-4 times a year and Mil about 6-7. Sil has just had her second baby (lovely lovely) & my other sil has just had one too so we are planning to visit. When we visit we stay with the mil so she can see the two DSs & because she likes the company. Sil emailed me today to say 'let me know when you come & i will come & stay too'.
I do not want her to come and stay too as 1. She is an hour away so mil always sees her kids. 2. Mil dotes on her little boy and he is quite possessive of her & the house as he often comes to stay there for a few days with Mil 3.We no longer have a travel cot so i will have to go to the bother of packing & sorting additional child sleeping things instead of relying on Mil's things (bought after sil had her kids).
Basically i'd like my kids to have some time with their granny without their cousins being there & deal with the fighting and bitching of two two year olds over lego & cars.
Unreasonable... Ah probably... Bahhhhh
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AIBU?
To suggest sil not come and stay too
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BulstrodeTheApatosaurus · 15/07/2011 00:01
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