of children? dp and i are going to be moving in together soon due to unplanned pregnancy (both happy about). i have 3 child as does he. he has his at the weekends and one evening during the week. i have encouraged him in building a good relationship with my children, which they have. but i have had little to no interaction with his and in discussing his children the other day he said that we would have to treat them differently to how we treat mine. i said that is never going to work in building a nice equal and happy home. treating one set of children different to an other will breed discontent, every one has to feel that they are in the same boat re discipline, and if i am not able to be a strong figure they will never respect me. aibu, anybody gone through a similar thing?
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