Been seeing DP for 3 years. We each have kids that will live with but his more or less rules the house. It's that bad that when he comes home from work he goes up to his room to watch TV etc as his DD controls the main TV downstairs! We've talked about moving in together but he says he wants us to wait until all the kids have left home, he estimates this to be at least 10 years away. AIBU to think this is just silly and a complete waste of the short lives we have? In 10 years he'll be almost 50. I'll be early 40s. I want to enjoy life NOW while I'm still young. We were on about making an adult trip to Florida when the kids leave home and he said something about "by that time I'll probably be too old for the rides etc" and it brought it home to me how far away 10 years actually is.
I've suggested that we just call it a day but he gets all upset and says its the last thing he wants but 10 years is a hell of a long time to "postpone" moving the relationship on isn't it??
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To think 10+ years is too long to wait to move on?
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PoorSweetInnocentThing · 07/07/2011 11:01
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