I've just had a kicking on AIBU for thinking SIL's reasons for not coming to DSS and DS's joint birthday party were a bit lame. DH and I probably over-prioritise family and clearly we need to accept that others don't necessarily feel the same. Anyway, DH got a text from SIL last night that I wasn't going to mention but he's asked me to see if you lot think it's a bit odd...
Apparently there'd been a misunderstanding with the presents she'd sent and that DD should have opened her present, as well as DS and DSS. (We had assumed that she'd sent it in readiness for DD's birthday in a month's time, hence not opening.) The text then said "As you know, I don't do birthday presents for DD or DSS but give them presents as and when I see them..." Except we didn't know because she'd never previously said that she doesn't do birthday presents for her nephews and nieces nor has she previously given presents at random times. And if the presents are for when she sees them and not for their birthdays, why would she get someone else to bring them to the party when she knew she wasn't going to be there?
Does anyone else do presents this way? I genuinely don't understand why she wanted to be so emphatic that they weren't birthday presents. She seemed quite put out that we'd got it wrong so it is obviously important to her for some reason.
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moonsquirter · 27/06/2011 16:02
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