Hi I had a disagreement with a friend , who was in the wrong and needed a few things pointed out to her in a nice way, she was in total denail over it all, but eventually apologised albiet grudgingly, we then had a night out with alot of other woman, she sat with another friend of mine who just drew me daggers the whole night, I did not speak to them and have not told anyone else of this argument but am now wary of the other girl , and wondering what is the best way to play it when we do meet up, any ideas?
she was in the wrong has been targeting a few other people and she apoligised to me personally , i have never had to address this kind of conflict at work before and found it extremely difficult because we have been friends for 4 years so i do not do it lightly.That is the hard part i was reallly fond of her but nhse has changed so much like a diffferent person and everyone is talking and seeing her in a bad light that is what i told her , was trying to help her.
Well, if she has changed into a person who behaves like that, then she was never going to "hear" your message. If you've tried to point out, nicely, that there's a problem, and she's now kicking off to other people about it, then you just have to back off I think. While she's behaving like this is it any great loss?