Have namechanged for this as have been ranting incessantly may have mentioned it in real life and don't want to be identified.
So... took DS1 (nearly 5) and DS2 (1) to a local museum. They're in an "interactive" bit for preschoolers, pottering around exploring things, but the whole place is hideously overcrowded. All of a sudden what looks like an entire class of schoolkids turns up, at which point it becomes unbearable and we decide to leave.
I turn my back to wrestle DS2 into his pushchair, and when I turn back, another mother is making a bit of a scene, very loudly telling her daughter (aged 2 or 3) to stay away from DS1 because, "He's just vile".
She walks past me with her nose in the air (really ? I don't think I've ever actually seen someone do this before), and I say, "Oh my God ? what's happened?" I get a rant back about how my son's been "vile" to her daughter and we've ruined her entire day. But she doesn't actually tell me what he's done, so I ask again. She bends down and says, very angrily, to my son, "Tell your mummy what you did." He runs off in tears. I ask her again. She tells me he's "obviously vile" and I should have been supervising him. I'm not getting anywhere, plus I can't see my son, so I run after him. He's crying and I can't get any sense out of him.
She then corners me again and tells me he needs to apologise. I ask her again what he's done and again she tells me that he's "vile" and needs supervision, but will not tell me what she's accusing him of.
At this point I just decide to leave before I burst into tears.
All I've managed to get out of my son is that he'd made a den and he told the little girl not to come in. He says he didn't shout at her, and I think I believe him. I definitely don't think he did anything physical ? partly because he just doesn't do that sort of thing and partly because if he had then I'm sure the mother would have told me.
So what I'm getting at is ? AIBU to conclude this woman was just spoiling for a fight? I just can't imagine what my poor boy could have done. Lots of the parents at the museum were very stressed out and I saw two other incidents of people massively over-reacting to not very much. I think she was just taking out her bad day on us, possibly trying to pick a fight, and the last thing she expected was for me to be reasonable! Why else would she refuse to tell me what he'd done? AIBU?
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namechangedbutnotatrollhonest · 22/06/2011 19:21
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