I found out yesterday that my husband has designed a website for someone that promotes having extra marital affairs. I did not find out from my husband. I am sickened from a moral standpoint for all the obvious reasons, but also from an emotional angle, as two years ago when our relationship was in tatters, he had a friendship with an old school friend for about 6 months that developed into something a bit more and resulted in a kiss, nothing else. Both stopped the friendship after that (she also married with kids) altho I feel he may have continued had it not been for her. I was deeply hurt and has taken me a long time to come to terms with, married for 16 years with 4 kids. So I am wondering if this is interfering with my view on this. He said we need the money (which is true) and that he shouldnt have done it and wants no more to do with it, this is only after me asking him about it, otherwise I probably would never have known. views please ladies!
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