my daughters preschool sent home a letter yesterday saying that at the end of term they are holding a pretend wedding to teach kids about weddings.
each child will have a role in the wedding, groom, ushers, bridesmaids ect. my daughter is the bride.
there will be a wedding ceremony followed by reception, food and dancing.
i have to find her a bridey dress.
im excited for her to have the main part, she is excited too, there is just a bit of me that feels a little weird about it. im probably being unreasonable, and i cant quite put my finger on what feels odd about it.
i think there is a small part that thinks i wanted to teach her about love and marraige myself later, and how marraige is about two people who love each other and want to stay with each other forever. not focus on it being the traditional man marries woman.
i think i wanted the idea that man marries man or woman marries woman to be just as normal to her as man marries girl.
but now aged four she is being taught that a wedding is all about man marrying woman.
i know i know she is only four and its just a wedding,
i have no intention of stoppping her going, she is so excited, i just felt a bit weird about it thats all.
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bubbub · 14/06/2011 08:41
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