this is long - sorry!
about a year ago i had to travel back to my home country and back to england on my own. Now, i never have any issues with travelling on my own but i hate planes. on the other hand i'm quite a sociable chatty person. Whilst i was in the airport, i started talking to this guy, around my age (22-23) and we got along surprisingly well, we had similar tastes in music, same sense of humour, and we found out we were travelling to the same location. we sat next to each other, chatted all the way and it really made my journey easier because i really hate planes. From the beginning when we started talking i told him about my dh, he told me about his gf, uni and all that. when we had to take different buses we were like "well it was nice meeting you, have a good journey etc. he said if i want to i can add him on skype, i said yeah why not. when i went home i told my dh about him and i added him on skype. when he didn't "accept" it i thought maybe he didn't want to talk to me and said it just to be polite or gave me the wrong name and I thought nothing else of it
fast forward a year later, i get a facebook request from the same guy, we start talking and he says he realised when he went home that there was 1 wrong character in his username but as he only knew my name had no way to rectify it. i said ok no problems, laughed about it, then he asks me how im doing etc, i ask how he's doing, how's uni, how's ur gf, he gets a bit funny and then he decides to confess that he doesn't have a gf, didn't have a gf at that time and lied to me about it. i was a bit.. okay? why did you do that? and then the biggest shock he said he really really liked me, "in that way" and when i started talking about my dh he made up a "gf" so it wouldn't be awkward, then he proceeded to point out all the little bits i was apparently oblivious to that happened during the journey that "proved" his point (i.e. calmed me down when i thought we were gonna die because of turbulence - i really hate planes!) . and "did i not notice the way he looked at me"I felt really really stupid and gullible! the thought just never crossed my mind, i spent some time after that conversation thinking if i've done anything to lead him on or anything - i'm very average looking, overweight and just nothing special in general so i really don't know why this happened.
AIBU to feel this way? okay i feel a wee bit flattered but most of my feelings are along the line of "how could i have been so stupid - how could i have not noticed it?!"
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alizee · 31/05/2011 23:06
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