OK, completely trivial, I know but this is the place to rant about trivialities, isn't it?
I have a cousin exactly a year younger than me. I have no direct contact with her but I know here to be a happy-go-lucky sort of woman, but she'd need to be what with the knocks life has dealt her; allergy causing her to have to give up her hairdressing job, jail bird DH (nice bloke but inevitable ishooz with their DS being teased at school and his virtual unemployability), no money (see above!), constant breaking down of domestic appliances (usually bought as recons due to tight finances), DH's work boat (very seasonal income!) needing a new engine, PLUS her recent diagnosis of a nasty incurable condition...it all adds up to real bad luck (with a teensy bit of poor choices, like with everyone's life).
But when my mother recounts this as heard from her own sister, the woman's mother, apart from the edge of schadenfreud I always detect, mum refers to my cousin in a patronising 'aw, poor little kid' manner.
She's 46!
I also object to the young male doctors at work referring to the late middle aged women in the booking office as 'the girls'.
Now wonder women don't get respect in our society when older women and younger men refer to them as 'girls'!
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..to wish my mum wouldn't refer to middle aged women as 'poor little kid'?!
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erebus · 27/05/2011 09:37
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