I have a 10 month old girl and she's great. In the last 2 months or so she's started to scream/yell and writhe about at times. She must be frustrated or unhappy about something at the time. It can happen in her highchair for example. I usually chat to her all the time but when she does this (described above), I notice that she is following me with her eyes as though waiting for my reaction, so I ignore it. I might just say in a casual/boring voice "I'm just getting your sandwich ready" or whatever, and continue what I'm doing without looking at her too much. When I ignore the behaviour like this she pretty quickly calms down again.
I know that when a toddler has a tantrum you shouldn't positively reinforce the behaviour but 10 months old is very young and I just don't know how others handle a baby of this age when they do this?
Instead of ignoring her should I do something more comforting? She is a happy baby otherwise.
I don't want to encourage tantrums and that's why I do what I do, but maybe you'll think I'm BU?
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elizabethjane · 20/12/2010 20:32
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