She is only 16 months old, and she has a twin brother and an older 2 year old sister. She has no ailments, no special needs that I am aware of, no profound emotional scars, and 50% of the time she is lovely. But the other 50% of the time she is a howling banshee. I hate leaving children to cry, but with my circumstances of 3 at home and being a full time mum, I often don't have the choice.
I just get really angry with her for making what would otherwise be a peaceful, happy, life at home of mother and three children into a high stress, high decibel cryathon day in and day out. Clearly, she wants more attention, but I have tried so many things to calmly get her to seek it in other ways. All to no avail.
I know it is completely irrational and wrong to get angry with a 1 year old, but in the irrational world that so much shrieking and crying draws me into, I just can't help it. I never take it out on her but I often have to shut myself into rooms away from the children and throw cushions around and cry until I feel a bit of the adrenalin leave my body...
Is this normal to feel this way, I suppose I am asking? Or is it me that is the problem not her?
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Somethingwicked · 09/12/2010 15:12
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