My DP has a work colleague who he's known for quite a while and DP helped this man move into his new house. DP told me his old house was disgusting with animal (cat possibly) poo all over the place, dirty plates, pans etc. He has recently got a new girlfriend and she moved in to his new house with him.
One evening recently, DP went round to the new house to drop colleague at home. Colleague invited him in for coffee. when DP got home, he told me couldn't believe the state of their house. Dirty clothes, pots pans, rubber gloves and packets of pills everywhere. He said you couldn't really see the floor for all the crap everywhere. He said there was mouldy food on plates and in cups in the kitchen. DP has known this man for over a year and has said his hygiene has always left a bit to be desired, but then to top it all off colleague told DP they are trying for a baby.
Am I being unreasonable to feel sorry for this 'to be child' as if they can't even keep their home in a decent state how can they look after a baby properly.
Maybe IABU as its none of my business, but it makes me so sad that this is the life this child to be has to look forward to.
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To feel rather sad for this 'to be child'
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IWantToBeAFairyWhenIGrowUp · 24/11/2010 12:16
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