trivial query alert: but its really done my head in! i have asked dp each day this week for confirmation if his rels are visiting us this weekend. they have been invited and im happy that they come to see us. but dp threw a massive wobbly last night saying ''you've changed so much since we first got together , why do you have to know, its abnormal that you need to know whats happening!'' then he starts a tirade about how crap things are between us. am i being control freak? or is it ok to want to know if we have people coming this weekend? to put it in contaxt a bit: this saturday i am also having major dental surgery so will be a little bit sore after that, i am really happy for them to come as we dont get that many vistors and the kids love it, and also my sister is coming sunday already so i am just trying to organise it all in my head. so dp got up and left this morning for work and has just text me saying soory for being nasty, but things have really changed and its not good for all of us, but i love you and if you dont want to continue i will understand. it feels like he wants me to say its ok you can go, i will take the blame!! AIBU about a)the weekend and b) that he wants a get out clause? thanks for reading, it is dull.
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napoleona · 12/11/2010 07:20
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