I know this sounds a bit playgroundish but...hear me out.
My dh is a healthcare professional, and also runs family business. We live in a small town. A couple of years ago, another man in the same business made a false allegation against my dh to the regulatory body for their profession and this resulted in 9 months of very stressful times for us as he was investigated and subsequently cleared completely, but the whole business took 9 months to complete and was very hard on my dh.
Fast forward 2 years, and my best friend has become friends with the wife of the man who made the allegations against my dh. My friend knows about this, but feels that the man's wife is totally unaware of what her husband did and therefore is innocent, and she enjoys her company and sees nothing wronh with this.
I suppose there is nothing wrong with it, but it is hard for me, as she frequently includes her in nights out, coffees, walks etc, and I really do not like this lady, partly due to prejudice if I am honest, cos of what her husband did, but even without that I know her to be a very bitchy, snobby and nosey person, who loves nothing better than to discuss other peoples business.
Should I say anything to my friend. I do try and avoid being around when this lady is invloved, but living in a small town, this is hard, and I know that adults cannot tell other adults who they should be friends with, but still, I feel like I cannot be totally open with her anymore as she is very open with this other lady and I know would discuss me,my dh with her, and I am not comfortable with that or indeed the situation in general.
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Irishchic · 08/11/2010 22:53
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