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WWYDEx’s Gf calling names

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ScotsMumof1son · 01/08/2019 16:11

Hi
I’ve been separated and divorced from my ex for a total of 6 years and he’s been with his gf for nearly 5 years. Her son and mine and my ex’s are in the same class at school.
Ex and I don’t talk at all because of her insecurity. I got a message on fb from her last Aug calling me a ‘slut’, I’ve only just seen it in the last month as it was hidden on fb messenger. It’s totally unprovoked, I don’t have any contact with her. Should I raise this to my ex as unacceptable? WWYD? She’s caused so many issues between me and ex with lying and her friends have harassed me, I like my private life to be private and keep myself to myself so being the focus of such attention impacts my anxiety.

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ChipsAreLife · 01/08/2019 16:13

Firstly you may want to get this moved!

Secondly, I'm sorry she sounds dreadful. If I were you I would keep quiet, sounds like she would thrive on a reaction and add fuel to her fire. Just ignore her

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ScotsMumof1son · 01/08/2019 16:35

Thank you for the advice and the suggestion to move the thread hadn’t realised where I posted it, my first post.

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Pinkbonbon · 01/08/2019 16:43

How can you be sure she is sending the messages?

'My gf is insecure and that's why she doesn't like you' sounds like standard narcissist bullcrap.

Have you ever met this woman?
I'd bet you ex is telling you both lies about each other. No woman wants to be on bad terms with another woman with whom her child shares family. Not without realllly good reason. Its not as if you are even the other woman so...why would she have a problem with you?

Its all your exs doing. Would bet my ass on it.

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