We were told of a bio sibling in July, and asked would be consider taking them. We said yes. We were told we had to wait to see what was happening. 3 weeks later we were told the plan was indeed adoption, and we would be transferred to the approvals team to become approved to be adopters. We then waited 3 weeks to be assigned a social worker and have a meeting with our social worker as an initial meeting to discuss our approval (not start the process). Two day later we were sent the ROI to send back to officially start the process - so we waited 6 weeks to start the process. Now, we have waited 3 weeks and still haven’t heard anything about any meetings. We have emailed pretty much every other day asking questions but replies take a day or two to come. In my last one I cced the head of service and this got a faster response. We are getting so fed up with the delays and the waiting for anything real to happen when there is a child just waiting for us. There is literally no urgency.
I suppose what I am asking is am I being unreasonable to email our social worker every day? The trouble is I don’t have his phone number so we literally have never spoken. I feel like it’s ridiculous what’s happening but it seems like for the social workers this is totally normal.
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smeemoo · 15/09/2020 07:17
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