Hi all :)
We have a bc who is 5 in August. Our son was a miracle as we shouldn’t be able to have kids but we did. I then had a hard pregnancy and Labour was difficult with postnatal depression kicking in due to post labour infections and tears. We were at the initial thinking adoption over stage and have two open days coming up.
However, my hubby has said he would love to give a child a stable and loving home but has been thinking and he thinks it would be unfair for the adopted child because he doesn’t think he could ever love them as much as our bc. I am upset but do thank him for his openness. This is now our journey over because I don’t want my husband to live in guilt and I wouldn’t want a ac to come to a home where we both don’t feel the same.
Such a shame but wondering if anyone else’s partner ever had a wobble and came around?
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Already have a bc - husband having a wobble before our open evenings
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universe83 · 16/06/2018 15:14
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