Hi my two children are today having their goodbye contact with their half siblings. SW and CSW have explained in a child friendly way that this will be the last time they see them till their all grown up. (18 years old) for my two.
I have sat them down again this morning and spoke to them about how today will be a wonderful but emotional day and if they want to cry or shout n scream they can. I just got a puzzled look.
My LG asked if her sister can come to our house and if she can go to hers. I've said no. She got upset as I thought she would. She's only 4, so doesn't quite understand.
We my husband and I won't be present at contact nor will the siblings carer. We'll be outside in another room.
I'm so heartbroken for them all, we've made pictures for the siblings which are meaningful.
How do I stay strong for my babies? I have told them it's ok to ask us questions and we'll be writing letters twice a year giving updates on milestones etc.
All I want to do is wrap them up from all this hurt and pain.
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IAmMumWho · 30/05/2018 09:30
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