Hi all we got our adm last week on being linked/matched with our kids, full adoption not complete just yet. We started off doing foster to adopt
CSW came today and has said tummy mummy wants to meet me and see the kids one last time even though she declined her final contact while with previous FC, we've had them 8 weeks and it was 4 months prior she declined. I feel this has come across as a this is happening rather than an option.
We have them in such good routines and I'm scared they will regress if they see her. Can anyone help? I'll due to speak to my IRO this afternoon for further advice.
Has anyone on here been in a similar position please? I'm happy to meet her but I honestly don't think it's wise for the children. At bridging we were introduced as mummy and daddy and seeing birth mum may cause problems for the children.
Please bare in mind these children are 3.5 years old and have been away from her for 12 months total.
Thanks for reading and I await replies xx
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Laura25o6 · 28/09/2017 13:07
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