Hi, I wonder I anyone can help.
I met my birth my mother for the first time about 10 days ago, I'm 44 she is 69. We met abroad, 1000's of miles away from the U.K where I was on holiday and she flew a few hundred miles to see me. It was an entirely positive experience, and mostly satisfactory and I came home feeling emotional but OK. I was looking forward to a future relationship, via email, possibly FaceTime etc and a later meet up (I hope). However, the past few days I've felt incredibly lost, low and unable to face the world. Everything is coming out emotionally and I just want to feel normal again. We've been in touch, briefly but now I'm waiting (and waiting) for an email from her. My worst fear is that she will decide to back off. It's so hard, I just want my mum and don't know when I'll see her again.
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Bowannabow · 02/02/2017 13:36
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