My child is 4. I always wanted a big family, but I did not tolerate pregnancy very well and do not feel I can subject myself, my partner or my existing child to being pregnant again.
I feel like there is something missing from my family. I love my child so much, more than anything else in the world, but I feel like I still have more love left to give to another child! I can't describe it really, I feel like I have space for another child in my life. My existing child would love a sibling, they are very loving and caring towards other children and often ask me for a brother or sister as they get lonely at home. My partner is also keen to have another child. We can easily afford to have another one too.
I don't know anyone who has adopted, or even fostered a child. I have no idea about the process, or even how to apply. I know it may be difficult as children that have been in care have not formed secure attachments as infants and as a detox nurse I'm well aware of the consequences of that! I guess I'm looking for people to share their adoption stories with me, so I can get a feel for what it may be like in day to day life? Brutally honest accounts would be really helpful as this is not a decision I want to make lightly.
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FruitCider · 20/10/2016 11:58
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