This is both me and DD. She hasn't slept a full night since way before christmas
She periodically goes through very sad and clingy phases. I cannot go to the toilet without her getting upset that I am leaving her, I am sleeping with her- its the only way to keep her in bed- and she is very restless
I know we will get through this but I am so tired
I am letting things get to me too. All the TV programmes and threads on here are upsetting me
I once posted on the feminist board, it was when I was having a hard time with feelings about BM and the hard life my poor DD will have. Her BM is not typical in that she had a good education and career and is not from a dysfunctional family. She wanted to experiment with different lifestyles
Anyway I thought there may be room for a debate on the feminist board about how to protect unborn babies whist still respecting womens rights
I was shot down in flames, told to FO
I shouldn't have gone there, especially as I was feeling so bad at the time. I can't shake off what one poster said though
She said people like me shouldn't be allowed to adopt and the process should have discovered what I was like
I cannot believe this has got to me so much. We have given so much and love our DD. We have changed our lives totally because of what she is able to manage. I feel dumb that words on a screen can upset me so much
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roadwalker · 29/01/2014 10:19
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