Hi all,
I have 2 children both adopted. We currently live in Singapore (where my children were adopted) but will soon be moving back to the UK permanently.
I'm wondering what the support is like for children with attachment and behavioural issues. We have had huge challenges with our daughter for the last 18months. She has been extremely oppositional, defiant, angry, and very violent - she is 7. We have had a variety of diagnosis here ranging from bi-polar to schizophrenic to autistic. To be honest, we are still not sure whether the most recent therapist has got it right with her - she seems to think she is just highly anxious. Things have improved slightly, and we now have some days where you would not think she were any different to any other 7 year old.
I currently have weekly skype sessions for myself with an institute in the US - I have found they are far more switched on about this issue. They have been an absolute Godsend in helping me understand what drives this behaviour. It is extremely difficult to get good help in Asia, they immediately want to medicate or my paediatrician here offered to take us both to church???
Anyway, can anyone advise what the support system is like. I don't want to go the school - my daughter maintains beautifully in school here so I am very reluctant to discuss with her new school as I don't want them to be viewing her as "the new girl with issues".
Would love to hear any advice.
Thanks
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Lozzamack · 06/05/2013 05:41
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