grandma smacking 4 year old

[user1498216537]

i am furious other grandma to my grandson came and dropped him off he is 4 years old ,and told me she had smacked his bottom,i said we dont do that to a child,and as i walked past i said it is very wrong to which she replied i had permissionn from his daddy. i know for a fact that she and her husband smacked all their own children ,but i am not going to allow anyone to smack my grandson.we and his parents have taught him hands are not for hitting,and he gets time out . i actually wanted to revert to violence myself and smack her just to see how she felt with someone hitting her,but i couldnt even say too much because little grandson was there so had to bite my tongue . mum has been informed and hope that she puts a stop to this woman touching our grandson. i despise people who think that the only way they can control a child is by hitting them,

[Fordian]

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[FitAt50]

It not up to you, its up to his parents.

[KitchenKrisis]

No one should lay a finger on dc, personally I think it should be made agaisnt the law

[girlmom21]

Has she left a mark?

What has your daughter said? Does her DP think smacking is ok?

[KeyLimePies]

@FitAt50

It not up to you, its up to his parents.

Oh, so smacking children is okay if you have permission from the child’s parents? Is that what you’re saying?

[faithfulbird20]

You're right to be angered. It's definitely not okay. Tell her you'll inform the police next time and social services.

[lisaandalan]

I'd ring her when grandson isn't around and say to her, we don't like violence in our family, we are taught to deal with things differently, but for you I will make an exception, if you put your hands on my grandson again, I will wring your neck. X