Today after school, the Senco/deputy head, who works closely with my SEN DS, came up to me & said she & class TA thought DS2 had lost weight.
He is & looks very skinny & always has been. Even when he had toddler chub he looked like an average-sized child & not chubby iyswim. He is 10 & 2 months. Is 140cm (measured him last week). I have just put away 8-9 tshirts as they were getting too short. Shorts he is in 8-9/9-10, trousers 9-10. We have to pull the waist right in on most things. Haven't weighed him in ages. I'm pretty sure he grew 5cm in the last couple of weeks as he was shorter than friend's daughter but now bit taller. Even his feet are small & skinny, he has just gone into size 2 & is a D/E width.
He did have one day in the week before half term where he was sent home from school because he was so tired he kept bursting into tears. This was following a long bike ride & later than usual bedtime with Cubs & also everybody was tired as end of half term. Also it takes him a lot of effort to settle into things as he has autism. Since then he has been fine & teacher said he has been full of beans since going back.
His diet is very good. He eats absolutely everything except about 5 things (lettuce, gherkins, olives, raw carrots & brussel sprouts) & always has. He has what I consider to be decent portions. For school lunch I give him slightly less at the teacher's request because he takes a long time to eat it. But he eats plenty at home. He will often choose fruit as a treat rather than cake/biscuit/sweets etc.
I have also noticed that he has started to grow a few hairs in the pubic region, so don't know if this is the start of puberty & if so would that have an effect? Ds1 was a bit later, about 11 for the same thing.
DH (his dad) is also on the skinny side & always has been. He is 6'2 & about 11.5 stone, just gone into 32" waist trousers (at age 44) as his 30" are too tight to sit down comfortably in (he has noticeably developed a little paunch, he is studying FT & not moving about much).
So, bearing all that in mind, which is a lot, I know, what should I do? Should I start giving him more food in his lunchbox? Offer extra snacks or more fattening snacks? Something else? He has a multivitamin with Omega 3 daily. I'm wary of feeding too many unhealthy (especially processed) foods unnecessarily because I believe that they are not good for you & weight isn't the only indicator of health. But maybe I'm mistaken.
Sorry for rambling on but it has been an emotional day & this has really worried me.
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Teacher concerned DS is too skinny
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confusedofengland · 10/06/2021 16:26
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