Because I'm going through it so hard and can't shift the shitty feeling of despair! I've done all the recommended things like deleting old conversations instead of re-reading them over and over, exercising, eating healthy, unfollowing on social media, having a good cry.. and also doing not recommended things like sinking 2 bottles of wine in one sitting then joining tinder and swiping right on every single person before waking up full of regret the next day and deleting the app
And nothing works. It's been a month and I've spent most of today crying and frantically thinking of things I could say or ways to get him to want me back. I know he doesn't want me though so I haven't spoken to him and am actually really proud of my drunken self for not sending him pleading messages.
All made worse by the fact he appears to have moved on and I feel so left behind, why was I so easy to get over? We had so many plans together, we were going to get married and go places and it all just seems forgotten in an instant. It feels like I was just holding him back because now he's out there living his best life and I'm sat crying into my weetabix every day.
So, do you have any tips for a sad lonely spinster like me because right now I feel fucking awful and like my chances at love are gone
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Do you have tips for getting over heartbreak?
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sobloodysaddd · 29/09/2020 20:01
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