Just ended a relationship(3 Posts)
Onlymeandthedognow Wed 22-Jul-20 19:03:54
Aquamarine1029 Wed 22-Jul-20 19:07:35
Onlymeandthedognow Wed 22-Jul-20 19:59:43
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Yesterday, I ended a 2.5 year relationship... today I feel weirdly joyful!! I’ve had huge sort-outs and tidy-ups, ‘accidently’ threw some of his stuff away, have no desire to set eyes on him again, and feel quite happy!!
Is this normal?? I think if I’m truly honest I was manipulated, used for money, and (possibly) EA...
I just feel so much better... but should I expect to feel bad, teary, sad etc soon?
Any advice welcome x
You might feel sad at some point, but I doubt it. It sounds to me as though you finally had a massive revelation and ended it, and you've known for quite a while you needed to. You have lifted a huge weight off your shoulders. Good on you!!
Thank you! I just can’t get over how good I feel! It had been building for a while really, we had a make-or-break couple of days away (I paid..) and were rowing before we left town!! He also dragged my car alongside a hedge on the way there after ignoring the satnav👹 then left me in the room on the last night to go drinking and talking football with randoms in the bar. By the time we got home I could barely look at him. I just hope there isn’t a ‘second wave’ where I end up mushy and weak!
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