Am I being unreasonable

[Anniewayte91]

Not sure where to start.. been with my boyfriend (if that’s what you can call him) for nearly two years, been downhill since January this year, people think he’s been emotionally abusing me, for example commenting on my appearance cause I put a bit of weight on and dying my hair a different colour... we split up about July and gave it a second go a week later..the past few weeks he has been very off and I have hardly seen him.. he said that he’s always told me to put myself first in life like I haven’t done before and that he hasn’t so he is doing now. There is a lot more to it, for example I can ask him a question and he will ignore it and just carry on talking about something else and he’s said before he does that to annoy me, why would he want to do that? Or I got my passport a few weeks ago and he said I didn’t really need it as it’s unlikely we will go on holiday and when I asked why is it unlikely he said he wasn’t sure and I asked why again and he said that he had to go to work now bye. Just things like that. I changed my hair colour back and since I’ve done that there’s been nothing about my appearance but now it seems to be something else. He needs a lot of support which I always try to give him but when it comes me needing support he just says he’s got his own stuff going on yet in the past he has said all he needs is support, not really sure if I’m being unreasonable? Thoughts?

[ree348]

You're not being unreasonable, he doesn't value or respect you. Trust your instincts you know what you need to do. You deserve to be in a fulfilling happy relationship with someone who treats you as an equal.

[Anniewayte91]

It was just do perfect to start with and im driving myself insane trying to figure out where it all went wrong