I'm looking for some advice on how to handle this. My son who is 7 has 'high functioning' autism and accordingly struggles with his social skills. He seems to be quite well liked by his peers but isn't always that interested, or else finds the complexities and compromise required too much of a bother/ too stressful. He's not a total loner but he seems to have short-term lived friendships which are lovely while they last but then he distances himself. He's usually got one main friend and that seems to be enough.
Anyway, last week he seems to have had a falling out with his best friend, who is quite a similar character to him and previously they've been very much a 'team' at school. They came out of school on Tuesday hugging each other which is quite typical. Then Thursday something happened (nothing major but I can't get him to explain or talk about it anyway) and I assumed it would sort itself out on the Friday but apparently they sat and played apart. Tried to have a gentle chat tonight about how sometimes friends can get annoyed with each other and then they make friends again but he doesn't seem to want to know. I'm just really sad for both of them as they seemed such kindred spirits and I'm worried he cycles through friends and then gives up on them the minute there's a bump in the road. Is there anything anyone can suggest? I know I can't force things but I get so worried thinking he'll end up isolating himself and miss out on even more than he currently does. Please advise!
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Autistic DS 7 fallen out with friend
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Nomintrude · 13/10/2019 20:52
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