PLEASE HELP!! MISCARRIAGE? NORMAL PREGNANCY?

[Hannak123]

Hello everyone! So I need a bit of help! So I was ttc with baby no1 from 3 years after numerous tests of hubby and I they tried to put me on clomid to see if it works. After 3 cycles I managed to have a beautiful baby boy! After the birth of my baby I wanted to have another baby so close to this one so they can grow up together since I have no1 else friends family next to me. So we tried clomid again after 3 months and in the 1st cycle I was pregnant! But sadly after 7 weeks it ended in another miscarriage! Then another 3 months later we tried again and suprise! I am pregnant again! I tested at 4 weeks and lines were really really faint for atleast 4 days. Then 4weeksday4 I started cramping and bleeding. Started with a light bleed but now has turned into a very heavy bleed but no clots!. Sorry for tmi. Still got cramps but they are bareable and still bleeding heavy. Went to the doctor and he said since its only 4 weeks they wont see me till Monday! The wait is killing me. Done another pregnancy test and the line is much darker today!

PLEASE HELP!!!! I want this baby more than anything else in this world!

[marvellousnightforamooncup]

I don't know how to help you other than to sympathise. The GP was spectacularly unhelpful when I was miscarrying. I wish they'd taken the time to explain what to expect, even just to say wait until the bleeding stops then poas which is what I did. I didn't know what could or should be done. Still don't.

It's horrible, I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you and baby are OK.

[spongeandcustard]

Can only advise that if the bleeding is very heavy then visit a walk in centre or A&E, so that you can get a referral to a local EPAU.
Hope baby hangs on in there xx

[Mumof21989]

I sadly have had what they call a chemical pregnancy, around 3 days after a missed period and light positive I began to bleed. I think sometimes we test too early these days. I am guilty of this. That said my little boy is now 1 and I bless through the first 4 months with him. My tests were strong positives despite this. I hope all goes well. It's a horrible situation x

[Mumof21989]

Bled not bless xx

[Notquitemyselfanymore]

I had a week of faint lines with bleeding and cramping. The Saturday was very heavy and full of clots, but the test I took two days later on the Monday was a strong positive and the bleeding stopped. Sadly, the test I took two days after that on the Wednesday was faint positive again and at EPU on the Friday they confirmed it was a miscarriage and the hormones must of just taken a few days to catch up.

I hope this isn’t the case for you and you have a successful pregnancy! My first pregnancy which was successful, I bled and cramped too, but I had no clots.

[pepsirolla]

I had similar fortunately it turned out to be
"Bedding in" bleeding as it attaches. Suggest as others say maybe go to walk in centre. please take care of yourself

[Hannak123]

Thank you all so much for you support it means so much. I will keep yous updated to what happens xx

[AlphabetMummy]

I tend to err on the side of caution with everything these days. I have heavy bleeding with no.2, was made to wait all day by hospital and then told the sonographer had gone home, id miscarried, so could i just pop back the next day to confirm with a scan.
Obviously devistated..... Went back the next day, yeah i had an internal bleed near my placenta! DS2 is now 3 years old and there isnt a thing wrong with him (besides being a hellish 3 year old)!

Of course ive had miscarriages as well, but I dont believe anything now until I see proof. I was bleeding so badly with number 2 that I couldnt move without spilling blood everywhere, so its nothing to do with amount of blood or anything! I hate that women are just dismissed with a guess and well see you another day "/!

Good luck hun, but the absolute best thing you can do is try to relax and think positive! Its better to think positive until proven bad news, than assume the worst like the doctors do and stress yourself unnecessary!
Xx

[Hannak123]

So just an update for u all! Went back to the doctors and requested so see another doctor she was much helpful and done a preg test came put positive! Then checked to see if my cervix was open. She said it was open and I was passing clots. She then referred me to the gyna department. Went there and they also wanted to do another preg test and examination. Test came out positive and from the examintion he said he couldnt figure out whether my cervix is opened or closed but he confirmed no blood was coming from the womb (dont know what he meant by this?) Also confirmed no tissue! So they done bloods for hgc and will ring me tomorrow to confirm levels! Fingers crossed!!!

[pepsirolla]

Thanks for update. Fingers crossed too

[Hannak123]

Another update for u all! So the hospital got back to me saying my levels are pretty low at 22 but they want to retest them and told me to come in tomorrow. Fingers and toes crossed!

[pepsirolla]

Everything crossed. Try to stay positive 🤞

[Hannak123]

Went for my bloods this morning! Waiting for them to ring me at 3 im so nervous and the time is dragging :(

[pepsirolla]

Really hoping you got the news you want

[Hannak123]

It was bad news 😥😥😥 they said my levels have dropped so I have had the miscarriage or I will have a miscarriage so gutted cant stop crying

[pepsirolla]

I am so so sorry. Words are insufficient. I have been there too. All I can say is hold on to what you have got, your DH and your beautiful baby boy. There is plenty of help here (www.mumsnet.com/Talk/miscarriage) Please take care of yourself and best wishes

[Hannak123]

Thank you so much. Its mean everything to me! Im so upset but hopefully things will get better

[valB16]

Hi, sorry to hear about what your going through not sure what your update is. However, mine is a similar story had a faint positive few days ago and I started light cramping and spotting which turned heavy like a period, and unfortunately just found out I had a miscarriage. Best of luck hope it's good news in some sense.

[valB16]

Sorry I just read your update properly.. I'm really sorry it's such a horrible feeling inside no doubt it chips a piece of your soul away.. just think we are not alone and God willing we will go on to have healthy pregnacies one day.. giving you lots of hugs xxx

[Hannak123]

So I had bleeding at around 4 weeks pregnant and assumed it was a miscarriage. We went to epu and they done some bloods they came back at only 22 they wanted to repeat them in 24 hours and they came back 21.9 so they were concerened as to why they hadnt gone down properly. Done more bloods in 48 hours and went up to 33. They thought this might just be a hormonal thing sent me home and said come back in a week for a scan and more bloods. In the week I went back I was 6 weeks scan showed nothing at all not even a sac and bloods had gone up to 130. Done more bloods in 24 hours and still going up to 160. Doctors are saying not a viable pregnancy and to take the low dose chemotherapy injection but im refusing as I still have hope. What is going on :( please help

[PinkFizzx]

So sorry🦋