I’m nearly 51 and despite having A Levels have only ever worked minimum wage jobs.
I was made redundant last month and have applied for over 30 jobs now, none of which have even made it to interview stage.
I’m not signing on for universal credit as my husband is self employed earning £21k so I won’t be given any benefits help, plus the last time I used a job Centre as a single parent, they never told me the town I live in had a sink firm that takes on call centre staff virtually by the hour they have such a high staff turnover, so I’m not confident they can help me.
I’ve had my CV checked my a free online reviewer and she said it’s not very expansive, but I can hardly expand ‘skills’ like warehouse assembly work.
My best jobs were in my 20s but those skills aren’t relevant in my current job search. I used to be a fine art ceramics painter, but I have two young kids and just need any job I can get, I’m not looking for a career.
Do you think my age is putting employers off?? I’m fit and healthy with no vices and do outdoor watersports for a hobby, so it’s not like I can’t carry heavy weight (25kg on my shoulders easily enough).
Admittedly I’m applying for shop work and have no recent retail experience - my last was in my early 20s - but my available hours are limited as I need to fit around school runs.
My husband can’t help as he runs his business from an industrial unit and it’s not a safe environment for kids. He can’t take time off to do the school runs either, and I can’t afford the school care clubs as I owe tax credits nearly £6k because they overpaid last year, so we won’t get any tax credits at all until that’s paid off, which will be in instalments as can’t afford to pay off in one go. Actually sorry we get £30 a month in tax credits until the debt is paid.
My car is also old and about to conk. Tax, insurance due in a month, combined they’re worth more than my car! So I can’t rely on it for work commutes.
I just want to get to interview stage!
I love interviews and am not nervous, and have never failed an interview, always got the job. I’m very shy otherwise but seem to do great in interview. On paper, my CV must be letting me down (insert shrug emoji).
I can’t do office admin either although I’m fine with desktop PCs it’s been years ...again...and I can’t even do basic stuff like Excel. I also didn’t get a maths qualification ...at all...I can’t even do mental arithmetic, despite being top of the class for English. Argghhh!
I’ll even clean toilets for a living, but can’t get to interview stage! I was turned down for 2 Travelodge type places for chambermaiding, and although I worked at the poshest hotel in Cornwall as a chambermaid can’t put that on my CV as, ....it was years ago!
Does anyone have any advice on how I can get to interview stage? I’ve also been into shops the old fashioned way, spoke to manager and given them my CV for the current vacancies advertised, but they always say, ‘I’ll pass it onto head office’ and I don’t hear back.
I’ve tried ringing the head office of one of the jobs I applied for, but they said, ‘if you don’t hear from us, you haven’t got the job’, which is fair enough.
Is there something I haven’t been doing to find a job? I’m on all the job websites, have done profiles and assessment tests online, etc
I still have to register with my local temp agencies which I’ll do later today as I revising my CV this morning, but their current advertised vacancies are all warehouse shift work for hours I can’t do because of the kids (the jobs I’m qualified/experienced for) as I live in the middle of super-warehouse-distribution-hub-central in the East Midlands/Anglia border.
We figured out evening work is best as daytime school hours are too gold dust. So...pubs, family restaurants. I did a free shift in one of those already... can I put that on my CV??
Any help is so welcome! I’m at my wits end. I posted befor I have 15p in my bank accounit and I’m not kidding, I have no income until child benefit comes in on Tuesdays. I also sell stuff online but it’s dribbled down into barely one order a week now so it’s negligible income.
Sorry this is so long. I’m starting to feel a bit down about it and I’m a positive, optimistic person usually, I’m starting to feel embarrassed that I can’t get a job.
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Is my age (50) preventing me from even getting to interview stage ??
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Weymo · 17/09/2019 10:25
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