I've told him tonight that I'm leaving, that I've had enough of his ranting, sulking, lack of apologies and the fact that tonight, whilst I had a pretty bad asthma attack, he carried on watching the TV. Mind, the last time I had a bad one he called the paramedics - at my request. Once they'd gone I had to lay down as the meds make me shaky, so he went out for the rest of the day with his daughter.
When I'd managed to get my breathing back under control and told him how I felt about his lack of care towards me, he shouted 'oh here we go, i can't do right for doing wrong, this is why I didn't say anything'!
He said I made him feel bad because he didn't know what to do, and when I suggested educating himself about asthma, that's when he began shouting.
He did offer to make me a cup of tea when his programme had finished though.
I have to leave as this is his house - but it's all my furniture which I will be taking with me . I have fibromyalgia and asthma, but I'm blowed if I'm going to live like this.
It's not the first time he's behaved like this. He will sulk for a day or two, then be back to his usual self with no mention - or apology - re tonight.
So, I need a plan - and the women of mumsnet behind me. I've already found a job I think may be suitable, so will call about that tomorrow.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join the discussion and meet other Mumsnetters on our free online chat forum.
Chat
Mumsnetteers, I need your support to keep me focused.
6 replies
WhipMaWhopMaGate · 11/09/2019 21:29
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.