One of my favourite topics op.
Been to Disney 4 times and efteling essentially 3 times but one of those was a week. How old are your dc.
We did efteling from around ages 3/4 and 8/9 for three years then Disney.
Roughly ages 6 and 10.
As you know Disney is fun, walk down main street and there's a buzz. Crossing parks at various points and come across wonderful parades and shows.
But it lacks the atmosphere of efterling.
My dc after a year of Disney were asking for efterling. Efterling is more magical because it feels more real. Tripping down little paths in vast wood coming across various fairy tales then stumbling across the fairytale Square in the woods. It seems to have more space than Disney.
Far more things to do when rides busy eg carousel Square which has at least 3 carosels and other old style rides. More play areas. The fairy tale wood can be revisited as many times as you like.
The accommodation and its location are far superior to Disney huge monolithic hotels.
After seeing and staying next to the efteling bosricjk lake (beautiful proper natural lake with reeds, flowers, sandman castle in the center, baby frog let's trees..) it was so depressing to see the Disney lake! Large plain lake surrounded by concrete! The acxmd has loads of natural play areas. You could have a pleasant stay without going near the theme park.
It's more authentic, every where your eye falls it will see something beautiful. It's oodles of Charm, old fashioned, magical.
Disney is very much a circus, gaudy lights, music, cheesy. There are no quirky surprises in Disney.
In efteling dc put on capes and ran around fairy tale forest pretending they were in fairytale.
They couldn't do that in Disney because there's no where to pretend really and get lost in imagination.
The castle and some of the shops is as close as it gets but you can't do that like efteling because its small and has hundreds of tourists flooding thru.
In July and August the park is open until 11pm on Friday and Saturday. There are loads of entertainers all themed in the various squares. So the Arabian nights area has market stalls, fire jugglers...
In fairy tale forest sometimes Princess gets driven thru in horse and carriage,other characters wander around the large wood... So you'll be walking along and red riding hood will skip past you.
In dream flight square they used to have dance off between fairies and elves.
In conclusion we all really like Disney and will definalty return, probably when Disney expands the studios. But it's efteling where our hearts are. It's a very special place and we can't wait to go back.