My DS11 joined a sports club with friends two years ago. It's a drop and go type club so I hadn't watched him play until recently as his age group have just started to compete.
I went to one comp before Christmas and he was by far weakest player in team. Disengaged and low energy, his friends obviously frustrated with him.
I spoke to the coach who seemed positive about him continuing however his old friends have sidelined him at training and now this group ignore him at school too. He seems to get nothing socially from this and obviously doesn't like to compete. I'm not sure why he keeps going as I've said previously he could give up if he wanted.
So, competition this weekend and DH has gone to watch. He has just called to say my DS was very poor and disengaged again.
We've not told him he isn't very good but it must be obvious to him from comments from teammates. Coach is a super positive inclusive guy who wouldn't kick him out but I expect some of the other parents will be having a good bitch about him/ it's that kind of town.
So, if DS wants to continue (goodness knows why) do I support him? Do I gently suggest he try something else? Do I go for full honesty and say 'look son this game just isn't for you'. DH very unsporty and won't want to learn/practise with him and I can't say I'm keen but would give it a go in the garden!!
So, WWYD?
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DS floundering in sports team. To give up or persevere?
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guerillastyle · 05/03/2017 14:00
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