We are a mixed race family - DH is white non-British and I'm of mixed British-Southeast Asian descent ?I look Chinese to most people?. Just moved into this area a week ago from a large city. This area however is a small market town, but people here we've met have been nice to us. Not that we really have a choice. DH lost his old job and in desperation took a new one which is in a rural location. I caught the flu bug my kids have been down with all of the past 2 weeks, and I have been up half the night every night coughing my lungs out since Saturday, and my voice has gone so hoarse.
While his job is going fine, our neighbours on one side had been giving us a bit of trouble, even though our whole family moved here only a week ago. They have a few kids, and two or three of them boys aged 7 to 13 love football. Which is fine. They kick their ball over our fence a lot. I don't mind throwing the balls over when I get the time to. I have not had a chance to meet their parents at all. They run a scaffolding business from the logo on their pickup truck parked outside and they bring hone building materials, etc.
Yesterday evening I was busy preparing raw food on the stove and they were playing footie. Kicked the ball over again. I thought I'd go throw it back after I'm done doing dinner, but no. One of the older boys climbed over, picked his ball and then quickly took one of my daughter's big red bouncy ball with him and launched it over. I shouted through my kitchen window at him in the loudest voice I can, asking him to "Excuse me, give my ball back!" He looked at me and then threw it back in my garden.
Today, these next door boys kicked the ball over again. My kids were in the garden and they threw it back pronto. The boys then licked it over again soon after. My kids threw it back, quite amused that it was like a game. But then after a while of doing that, my kids got tired of it and stopped. The boys then asked if they can climb over the fence to pick their ball up. My kids said yes but they shouldn't kick it over again. Then the boys started mocking at my kids for being Chinese.
Anyway, so my kids were upset about that and came back into the house to tell me.
Then an empty bottle of Coke came hurling towards my kitchen window. The boys did it. My kids threw it back to them. They threw it back at us. And threw a small plastic bag of rubbish. I went outside to their fence and shouted over it as loud as I can manage, with my very hoarse voice "Stop it boys, or I'm gonna call the police! This is our garden. You can't keep throwing your things in here."
And I was met with silence. Not even sure if they heard it, but I was getting quite angry.
Our AST lasts 6 months and I'm already planning to move out of here. I dread when the summer holidays come and these neighbours kids will be around all day long. Our garden is very easy for anyone to trespass into. There is just a small old rusty gate slightly lower than the height of my hip. It's an ex-council house too. Just wanted to know if I do call the police if the neighbour's kids damage anything in our garden, will it be much of a solution to our problems? Or what else can we do? I was thinking of maybe knocking on the kids' parents door to introduce ourselves. Perhaps a bit too late now that this has happened?
I've lived in a council estate for about a year briefly, nearly ten years ago, and it was trouble all the time. This just reminds me of it.
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Neighbour keeps throwing stuff over
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goingtosa · 02/07/2014 19:42
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