Ok, bit of background to the situation.
My parents have both died, but when they were alive we had large family Christmases.
DH's mother has also died.
Every year we have had to split ourselves between the 2 families, usually having FIL and BIL for Christmas Day and going to my sisters on Boxing Day/day after.
My brother and sister both have teenage/adult children and I have 2 DSs, 3 & 8 months. DH's brother doesn't have children.
However we have recently moved out of London and back near the family so Christmas was going to be more complicated this year with us having to split up Christmas Day (sister's for lunch, have FIL in evening).
So, my sister suggested that everyone comes to our house. It makes sense, we won't be torn, DSs will be able to get to bed at reasonable time in their own house, we have room. There will be 13 adults, 1 toddler plus baby.
The only downside to this is the organisation and cost of the whole thing but sister has volunteered to pitch in/contribute and to make sure everyone else does the same.
So, my question is, what should I insist other people do or bring. My sister is bring the turkey as my oven isn't big enough to cook it in.
Any other tips for stress free mass catering. Does this work in practice or will I still end up having a nervous breakdown by Christmas Even trying to coordinate everything?
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My sister's solution to Christmas this year is that everyone comes to our house!
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fruitstick · 10/10/2009 22:49
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