I have namechanged just in case.
I have PILs who are lovely. But they are somehow trying... particularly when it comes to material things. They are very insistent about asking what we'd like for presents, then if what we've requested doesn't conform to something that is 'keepsakey' they get something else.
They wanted to buy DS1 his first shoes, first winter coat etc. Good grief... I am so lucky compared to so many other MNers, but it's just very in your face sometimes. MIL is a massive hoarder and memory preserver and I think expects us to be too with respect to the things they've bought (you know, rather than selling them at a Nearly New Sale or something). I will keep some things, obviously - just not everything.
So... I am already slightly dreading Christmas and would like to ask DGPs on both sides to limit presents to one big and one little. More so now we have DD (1yr) as well - I'm almost tempted to say get her nothing 'big' since she can have all her brother's things (such as ride ons... which he never really got on with but that she seems to like) and we are running out of space (!). I know though that PILs will want to get them both no end of little gifts besides the main one, that will just clutter and probably not be played with often. How do I go about asking them to hold it in without sounding an ungrateful cow (which, arguably, I am)? My folks I can be frank with and they won't be offended at all.
It can be special for the parents to do things like get the stocking presents; I think PILs still want that pleasure and forget that every time they do things like that, although it's very generous, that pleasure is taken away from DH and I. Arrrgh! I'm so horrible.
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MissMeany · 22/09/2012 20:54
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