Dd had a party at the weekend and invited the whole class. She was 5 and had a bouncy castle and face painter, it was a fab party.
She was given presents by the guests and we took them home to open later (as otherwise we'd have spent hours opening them at the party).
My questions are:
- Do I HAVE to write thank you notes?
- Do you?
- And if so, do I HAVE to personalise them?
- And What Is The Point?
My feeling is that this is complete overkill since:
a) we provided a party, they provided a gift, that's the deal, everyone's happy, surely?
b) the children giving the gift probably didn't know what was in it in most cases (I alays buy presents for my children to take to parties so it's not as if any special effort has gone into it)
c) In which case, it's the PARENTS writing to the other parents isn't it?
d) it's a waste of trees and time and effort
e) we said thank you at the time, when we were given the gift. They said thank you for having me at the end of the party, all done and dusted, surely?
So, AIBU to NOT indulge in this competitive thanking? I am very interested to know what the mn consensus is on this!